It’s Lesbian Visibility Week, and during a political moment when anti-gay sentiment continues to rear its ugly head, it’s nice to see evidence of queer folks living their best lives and thriving.
That was the inspiration behind Carnegie Mellon linguistics scholar and Professor Uju Anya‘s now-viral Twitter thread, which called for lesbians over 40 to reply with pictures of them living their best lives.
Too many queer youth say they don’t see elders to give them hope. Please, for #LesbianVisibilityWeek, I’m calling lesbians age 40 and over. Reply or quote with a pic/vid to show our youth they have generations past, present, and well into the future🧡🩷🤍❤️💜 pic.twitter.com/FQ8OyIPppg
In no time at all, elder lesbians heeded the call, and the results were beautiful to behold. Suddenly, our timelines were filled with thriving couples embracing visibility and showing younger generations how it’s done.
We are 50 and 59. We fought hard for our liberation, raised 6 children, currently spoiling 5 grandchildren (w. 1 more to come this summer 💗) and we’re living our lives to the fullest together. She is my gift and my reward. ❤️#LesbianVisibilityWeekhttps://t.co/si6YBykSuypic.twitter.com/07RbC2pf4f
— Asha Gaines Immanuelle (she/her) 🏳️🌈 (@AshaGaines617) April 25, 2024
— Ellen Kushner @ellenkushner.bsky.social (@EllenKushner) April 26, 2024
Some women were single, while others proudly showed off their partnerships. The point is that no matter what your life looks like as an older queer person, it’s a life that’s worth celebrating. And it’s a life that younger generations deserve to see.
— Christina (❤️Supercorp Canon💙) (@GoChrissyGo) April 25, 2024
With so many anti-gay measures currently on their way to legislation across the country, along with a million gay trauma narratives on TV, it can be hard to visualize a happy future. But these women are living proof that queer joy and partnership deserve to be seen and celebrated all year long.
— 🌈Kianna Alexander is Edifying Her Ancestors🌈 (@KiannaWrites) April 24, 2024
It’s not always easy to be visibly queer in a country that’s hell bent on restricting your rights, but these women are doing it with strength, heart, and style.
— 🌈Kianna Alexander is Edifying Her Ancestors🌈 (@KiannaWrites) April 25, 2024
And even folks who didn’t contribute to the thread were so happy to see it. We need more of this energy!
I want to give my amazing fiancée @UjuAnya her flowers. This thread and the absolutely gorgeously brave lesbians in it brings all of us so much joy. Our presence, lives, bodies, faces, are medicine, resistance, and joy. THANK YOU. https://t.co/rH3WofMwqo
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