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Omar Apollo reveals the body-shaming incident that affected his Queer sex scene

Omar Apollo performs at Austin City Limits Music Festival Friday, Oct. 7, 2022, in Austin. Aclfest Wk1 Omar Apollo Bsa 002

For a minute there it looked like the culture was on track to be done with fat-shaming forever. Then came the Ozempic wave, and it’s looking like we’re headed for a horrible renaissance of body-shaming, fatphobic takes, and general regression to the cultural landscape of 2004.

If you haven’t been online lately and somehow needed more proof, look no further than Omar Apollo‘s comments in an Interview magazine feature about being shamed into shedding 20 pounds ahead of his film debut in Luca Guadagnino’s Queer.

“I saw a tweet that called me ‘fat skinny’ or some sh*t,” Apollo said, noting that in the script, his character was written as having a “flat brown stomach.”

Which begs the question…why are we still including character descriptions about the size of peoples’ stomachs in scripts?

https://twitter.com/stockpiledclay/status/1866382082622247177

The Ozempification wave certainly started after filming on Queer wrapped, but it still says a lot that after a brief moment of body positivity, we’re already back to body-shaming people for being anything but stick-thin.

https://twitter.com/stockpiledclay/status/1866382082622247177

It should go without saying, but we’ll say it anyway: there’s no reason for anyone to be commenting on anyone else’s body in this way, and the fact that we’re still comfortable judging people publicly for weight gain (while praising others for weight loss) speaks volumes about the dark age we’re headed into.

Omar Apollo is beautiful at any weight, and it’s sad that he felt shamed into crash-dieting for a role. It’s nothing new, and it’s something that will keep happening, but the least we can do is point out how messed up it is.

@omar.apollo

Te Maldigo out nowwww 🤎🤎 video directed by Luca Guadagnino 🙂‍↔️

♬ Te Maldigo (From “Queer”) – Omar Apollo & Trent Reznor and Atticus Ross

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Henry Giardina (he/they) is the editor of INTO. He lives in Los Angeles. Past publications include the New York Times, The Believer, The New Yorker, The Paris Review Daily, The Atlantic, Film Comment, and Gizmodo. He is @punkgroucho on Twitter.